Yvonne Kariba. You put me on/I even fell for that stupid love song Home. and I came home and looked up the lyrics. And you *will* heal, no matter how brutally you were treated, no matter how deeply you were stabbed. And lock your doors at night Bessie Smith, “Outside Of That” Blues legend Bessie Smith beat The Crystals to that sentiment by decades: Her 1923 song “Outside Of That” writes off her lover’s abuse as just one minor sticking point in their relationship. The bridges were burned/Now it’s your turn, to cry, “‘Baby, now we’ve got bad blood/You know it used to be mad love This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Song by STAIND called FOR YOU. I’ve heard it all before, at least a million times/I’m not one to forget, you know, “Never saw it coming, all of your backstabbing/Just so you could cash in on a good thing before I’d realize your game These hit songs are the perfection dedication to the narc in your life and to help soothe your tired soul. I’m in my 7th year of therapy and almost not needing visits to my therapist who says what I experienced is one of the worst if not the worst she’s ever dealt with. And every woman graced with your presence after, Dear narcissus boy You told me you love me/Why did you leave me all alone No lies, no wrong/Boy I, must’ve been outta my mind This one is so accurate! Required fields are marked *. But many of them are full of bitterness and anger. Here’s the bottom line: once you’ve extracted yourself from the manipulationship, give yourself some time. 0. I don’t care anymore, I don’t care anymore, I don’t care what you say/I don’t play the same games you play”, “I hear you’re asking all around/If I am anywhere to be found Guess you never felt that way, But since you been gone/I can breathe for the first time Girl, I refuse/You must have me confused with some other guy You thought I wouldn’t sell without ya, sold nine million”, “There’s a part of me I can’t get back/A little girl grew up too fast They're pretty ambiguous and open to interpretation. Over 50 years of narcissistic abuse from more people than I can count on one hand. Recovering from narcissistic abuse is hard, and it’s okay to admit you need help. I found a couple lists of songs about abuse, but I feel like there are lots of songs out there that got overlooked, and most of them were the same basic genre. You probably never saw it coming Bad Blood – Taylor Swift I believe that Taylor has been through a string of relationships with narcissists. 17 Comments . Search for: Poems & Songs About Narcissism. Narcissistic partners suck – we know that. It is my hope and prayer that these songs and poems will touch you…whether you were damaged as an adult by a narcissist, broken as a child, or you know someone else who was. 17 Comments . Here are some songs you can listen to if you feel like you are in a toxic relationship 1.Rihanna – Love On The Brain The song reflects on Rihanna’s life back in 2009 when she was physically abused by her boyfriend Chris Brown. I love that you’ve added descriptions. The song reflects on Rihanna’s life back in 2009 when she was physically abused by her boyfriend Chris Brown. Menu Skip to content. If you’re ready to go deeper now, check out the #1 therapist-approved online program for narcissistic abuse recovery. Search. Now you tell me you need me/When you call me on the phone I realize how painful recovery from this form of abuse is. Search for: Poetry & Songs Little Knives. I guess the change in my pocket/Wasn’t enough I’m like, cause I’m a liar, a liar, a liar, a liar, I’ll hide behind a smile and understanding eyes and I’ll tell you things that you already know April 5, 2020. share. You think I can’t go on another day, You think I have nothing/Without you by my side Not angry or depressing either : ). If you think you need more expert support or advice please go to thehotline.org to chat with them, and if you are feeling suicidal, don’t wait, call the suicide hotline at 1-800-273–8255 or 911. you feel so lucky  You’re not alone. For once I’m at peace with myself I think sometimes the writer of a song about heartbreak may have been involved with a narc without knowing it. Here are 8 signs of narcissistic abuse that you should learn to recognize: 1. Now there’s just no chance/With you and me 17. Your email address will not be published. Go on now, go, walk out the door I’ll take a look at all of them as soon as I have a chance and add them if they seem to fit with the list. How could you ever be so cold/To go behind my back and call my friend, Boy you must have gone and bumped your head/Because you left her number on your phone And I grew strong/And I learned how to get along, And so you’re back/From outer space If you are wondering why you seem to be in worse shape now, than when you were in the relationship, you are not alone. And if you think that I’m still holdin’ on to somethin’/You should go and love yourself, When you told me that you hated my friends/The only problem was with you and not them You said the gun was mine/Isn’t cool, no, I don’t like you, But I got smarter, I got harder in the nick of time/Honey, I rose up from the dead, I do it all the time Songs About Narcissism: Your Abuse Recovery Playlist . Slowly it’s making sense why he can do things he does. Thousands of people have benefited from this program that’s practical, proven, and reliable. I’ll tear your mind out/I’ll burn your soul/I’ll turn you into me/I’ll turn you into me Feeling good now you’re outta my life/Don’t wanna talk about us The arsonist by Pucifer I was a mess for quite a while. Post the lyrics here of songs that speak to you about your experiences, or that make you think the singer experienced something like we have... 8 comments. 2 Comments on Narcissistic Abuse Playlist on Spotify; Sticky post If there ever was a playlist of songs you could relate to, it’s this one. I can’t get the 28 years back. I don’t care anymore, You can tell everybody ’bout the state I’m in/You won’t catch me crying ’cause I just can’t win Learn how your comment data is processed. I think it will only prolong your suffering. But when times are hard, "I'm Still Standing" by Elton John really reminds me how great I am and how pathetic he still is. I had some dreams, they were clouds in my coffee I have pride and morals so I don’t tell this story. Song about narcissistic abuse: It’s In Your Head (introspectrum) Posted on November 9, 2015 by NarC. Free Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Toolkit! I would bet that all victims have heard someone say that the abuse wasn’t so bad or NPD isn’t a real thing. I want to suggest 6’1″ by Liz Phair. Thanks for the suggestion. If you live like that, you live with ghosts/If you love like that, blood runs cold”, “Dear momma’s boy Your email address will not be published. Smiling Faces Sometimes by Undisputed Truth is a fun one for that. Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde NPD AsPD Support Forum for Survivors of a Relationship … I wanted to hurt him make him see how wrong he is I began reading about NPD It is NOT a replacement for therapy or counseling. Hi Harry– such great advice! I go to bed hungry a lot. Ooh, I’m over you, Don’t call me up/I’m going out tonight Narcissistic abuse can leave much more than emotional damage. “Smiling faces sometimes pretend to be your friend. I find music to be very good for one’s mental health. Thanks for leaving a comment. I know you’ve had your butt licked by your mother/I know you’ve enjoyed all that attention from her Songs About Narcissism: Your Abuse Recovery Playlist . Too bad I didn’t know what signs to look for in narcissists and how to break free from them then. So, onward with a new one! And I ain’t got time for you/Telling me what I’m not F*ck you and f*ck her too!”. Female singers and artists with One-Word Stage Names (Part 1) a band with a one-word-name will not be included. Peace, internal strength and safety are what focusing on Jesus and goodness will lead you to. I hope you lay down in your sleep and you choke on every lie you told April 5, 2020. Oh, yeah … and I’m now Titanium like never before. I walk with my head down/Try to block you out ’cause I never impress you I believe there are 3 Acts. So fear, you will never be welcome here, Take a minute, let it settle in If you have ideas about other songs that should be on this list, leave a comment or send me an email and I’ll review the song. Jan 19, 2015 - Narcissists. I do not want to die here. As always, in any tough time I turn to songs to help me understand and get through. No time to have family now (52). Act 1 is trust-building. If you’d like to hear or save the entire playlist, here’s the link: Songs About Narcissism: A Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Playlist (YouTube), Fairy Tale Shadows Channel. You thought that I’d be weak without ya, but I’m stronger Wrote this poem during one of those silent treatment times. So I cried myself to sleep so confused I would of killed myself if I could see through the tears of confusion. Songs about narcissistic abuse, or cluster b personality types. They are not permitted. We support abusive relationships from romantic, work, roommates and friends. Gnash – I Hate I Love You . Search. Find out more about it and how to know if you're a victim. Instead, I claimed “systematic denigration of my parental authority” and contempt for the Parenting Plan by undermining my children’s relationship with me. Check out this playlist to help feel empowered, or help feel the pain. because everything I say is everything you’ve ever wanted to hear You may find yourself thinking “well, maybe it isn’t really that bad,” or finding other ways to keep things to yourself. “Thank you for all the doubts, and for all the questioning 3. You do everything for this person, short of giving them the moon and the stars. But everyone ought to know this: put your faith in Time. I’m two months out, after four years, and I know it’ll take more time than I want. But to think that you could be the one/Well it didn’t work out that way, Get out, right now/It’s the end of you and me And I don’t wanna talk/So don’t call me up”. You keep in contact with certain exes, Do you, though, trust me, ***** it’s cool, though/Said that you was workin’, but you’re out here chasin’ culo But when times are hard, "I'm Still Standing" by Elton John really reminds me how great I am and how pathetic he still is. Completely by surprise. No doubt you’ve heard about narcissism or Narcissistic Personality Disorder. You thought that I’d be broke without ya, but I’m richer For all the loneliness and for all the suffering. They are not permitted. And I wonder how I bought all the lies Here are a few examples of abuse you may not have identified: Hi Simone: Yes! Inevitably, the good-by is bittersweet. The term narcissistic abuse refers to the way people can be emotionally manipulated by a narcissist, and how it adversely affects one’s self-esteem and self-worth. It is NOT a replacement for therapy or counseling. Close. I loved it before I knew anything about narcissism, but it took on a much deeper meaning after I discovered what was happening. Inevitably, the good-by is bittersweet. It’s true when she says we’re only as sick as our deepest secrets. “Narcissus” by Alanis Morissette No matter what we do or say, they can’t love us and we can’t fix them. Give the song “100 Letters” by Halsey a listen. Gonna stand my ground/And I won’t back down”, “If you like the way you look that much/Oh baby, you should go and love yourself Please reach out to others and stay safe. We could have had it all (you’re gonna wish you never had met me), Rolling in the deep (tears are gonna fall, rolling in the deep) But, I have to admit, songs that teach a lesson and issue a warning to us are helpful to me when I want to have a little fun. I guess it’s fine, man, I get the message/You still stutter after certain questions 3. I encourage you to try out each song on the list to see what might resonate with you, even if some don’t tend to come from your favorite genres (unless of course a song is triggering or holds difficult memories for you). I’d rather not add songs that describe only what it’s like to be in the heights of love with them or the throes of despair unless it’s also accompanied by an empowering message. I have no family no career no education no friends of my own. The other afternoon while I was having coffee I heard a song playing... Found out if was called "Are you lightning?" Wide Awake by Katy Perry You’ll see/Somehow, some way, “Made a wrong turn, once or twice/Dug my way out, blood and fire I’m a warrior/I’m stronger than I’ve ever been But don’t stay in that place too long, you’ll only keep hurting yourself. And when you’re reaching out for me you’ll see you reap everything you sow”, “I see the future without you/The hell was I doing in the past? And putas, chillin’ poolside, livin’ two lives/I could’ve did what you did to me to you a few times”, “There was a time I thought that you did everything right Now that you’re gone/I am free When it comes to true love girl with him there’s no one home”, “I don’t like your little games/Don’t like your tilted stage Bitch, I got no feelings to go/I swear I had it up to here, I got no ceilings to go”, “You think that I can’t live without your love/You’ll see It’s like Groundhog Day. Tryin’ to apologize/You’re so ugly when you cry Stay strong and take care. Mistaken, always second guessing, underestimated/Look, I’m still around”, “Couldn’t take the blame, sick with shame/Must be exhausting to lose your own game, selfishly hated Try the highly underrated 1997 film “The Game” with Michael Douglas, Sean Penn and others. 2. 6 talking about this. Hi Gwen: Thank you for these awesome suggestions! Keep reading so you can inform yourself on the dangers of narcissistic abuse so you can prevent it from happening to you. -Kristen. Hauntingly beautiful song by the folk-turned-country singer about being dumped by a narcissistic man who only used her as long as he needed her. Narcissistic Abuse therapy will help you understand what happened to you and heal so you can move on with life. I’ve found you find strength in your moments of weakness Whether, the narcissist in your life is a spouse or partner, or a family member, you know that healing from this abuse can be challenging. But that was love and it’s an ache I still remember”, “Tell me why you’re looking so confused/When I’m the one who didn’t know the truth Do you have any song or lyric favourites that you associate with narcs? Narcissistic abuse can be hard to pinpoint. No family dynamics or posts about family members or posts about other people being abused please. Healing from narcissistic abuse is a process, and the journey to recovery has many stages. I left no trace of you at all/And I can sing my song again”. This is a sickening joke that you play with my emotions/And so I pray you burn in hell and you never find the ocean, I hope your fire, fire burns baby/I hope your fire, fire burns baby Please join the Facebook group at facebook.com/groups/fairytaleshadows to meet some really wonderful people if you have not already. Please Close Menu. To all who stood with me, when we stood as one. Although it made me extremely sad and somewhat regretful, in the end it helped me with gaining the confidence and empowerment it took to stay away from him this time. Did you forget about me, Mr. Duplicity?/I hate to bug you in the middle of dinner They're arrogant, lack empathy, and take ruthless advantage of others. A Learning, Resource and Support Forum. Songs about narcissistic abuse, pt 2. Music really does heal. 21 Stages Between A Narcissist And An Empath. No family dynamics or posts about family members or posts about other people being abused please. God bless you Narcissistic partners suck – we know that. And you’re right with these songs, as much as it’s helpful to see that others have suffered the same experience (thankful for this article), it’s also a terrible trigger that puts me back into a dark place. Collecting your jar of hearts/And tearing love apart, You’re gonna catch a cold/From the ice inside your soul This is a list created by survivors for survivors — I’ve added many songs over the years as readers have written to me and asked me to add them. I have just discovered after 12 years and two kids that I’m in an abusive relationship with a introverted narcissist. Then he called you up to check that you were waiting by the phone I’m a warrior/And you can never hurt me again”, “It was only late last night he was out there sneakin’ S January 18, 2021 at 2:32 pm. This song especially is close to my heart, the last 2 years of my life were just like this. Respect to all of you. From one silent treatment to the next, amidst all the hoovering and narcissistic discards, we hope and grieve and hope and grieve until our hearts have no choice but to give up and give in to acceptance as a means of salvation. Click here to learn more. Narcissistic Personality Disorder Psychopath Sociopath Narcissism Narcissist Abuse Recovery Abuse Survivors Support Forum Emotional Abuse Mental Abuse walking on eggshells with Jekyll and Hyde?